A Slow Childhood

A Slow Childhood

by Helen Hayward

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‘We are blessed to have Helen Hayward as our guide, confidante and explorer through the tumultuous, intensely familiar and yet entirely uncharted lands of children and parenting. Her achievement is to have written a book about the most ordinary things and to have located therein the most extraordinary insights and ideas.’

So writes Alain de Botton in his foreword to A Slow Childhood, a book he describes as “a triumph” having at its heart the greatest, founding philosophical question, a question parenting ineluctably demands that one address: what is a good life?

[See the press release for the book here]

If you’ve ever struggled to balance a desire for personal fulfilment with a yearning to the best parent you can be, Helen Hayward’s journey will resonate with you. Part-memoir, part-existential musings, part-guidebook, A Slow Childhood is based on the former academic and psychotherapist’s personal experience of transitioning from a life focused on career to a life focused on family.

Hayward’s discussion of how to make parenting work best for mothers, fathers and their children is thoughtful, honest, refreshing and challenging. It may be the book that changes your life, and the lives of your children, forever.

Helen Hayward is a Hobart-based writer, editor and blogger with a background in psychotherapy, publishing and higher education. She has a PhD in psychology and literature from The University of London and is the author of Never Marry A Girl With A Dead Father: Women’s troubled relationships in realist novels and For the Love of Food: Stories and recipes from extraordinary Tasmanians.

Price: $AUD32.00
Format: B format paperback
ISBN: 978-1-942189-74-9
Page extent: 170
Weight: 160g
Release date: May 2017


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    Helen Hayward is a freelance writer living in Hobart. She taught in universities and trained in psychotherapy in the UK, leading to her first book Never Marry a Girl With a Dead Father. Her most recent work includes The School of Life website, Food As Therapy, For the Love of Food: Stories and recipes from extraordinary Tasmanians, and her […]

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    Helen Hayward’s achievement is to have written a book about the most ordinary things and to have located therein the most extraordinary insights and ideas. Her topic is beautifully, unashamedly ‘boring’. Almost nothing ‘happens’ in A Slow Childhood. Thank goodness. Yet from the stuff of ordinary life, Hayward has weaved a narrative filled with tenderness, complexity, honest self-reflection and purpose.


    A Slow Childhood gives shape to experiences that will be known yet unknown to almost every parent. Hayward’s book is an optical instrument we can use to see what has been lost in plain sight.


    Most of our lives are spent in situations of numbing sterility. We don’t in our work generally create anything of particular wonder or interest. We don’t know how to paint or play Chopin’s Scherzo No. 2 in B flat minor. We can’t personally manufacture an iPhone; we don’t don’t know how to extract oil from the ground.

    And yet, without being conscious of the specifics, we are at points capable of doing something properly miraculous: we can make another person … We can choreograph the birth of an organic machine that will probably still be going close to a hundred years from now. Hayward never allows us to forget the supernatural nature of all this and yet at the same time, she is too much of a realist not to remind us that, when the wonder and the ecstasy are past, someone still has to boil the milk and do the laundry.


    Parenting ineluctably demands that one address the greatest, founding philosophical question: what is a good life? This question lies at the center of A Slow Childhood. As each of us goes about answering it in our words and actions over long parenting years, we will at least know – as Hayward acknowledges – that we have been spared the one great fear that otherwise haunts us and usually manifests itself around work: that of not being able to make a difference.

    [Selected extracts from Alain de Botton’s foreword to A Slow Childhood]